Bare it all? Trim? Au naturel?
It’s a question that a friend wondered about regarding women. What do women want to see when the pants come flying off? And what do men want to see? To see or not to see– pubic hair that is.
I personally have no real expectations or a true preference when it comes to pubic hair being there. Of course, I don’t want to see a jungle with inches of hairy bushes, but having some TAMED hair is fine with me. The penis will work the same with or without any hair. The only issue that it would cause is when licking the lollipop where unwanted hairs can get stuck in your teeth, cause a burn or make you laugh. Then a trim may be needed.
If you leave a jungle we might think you’re dirty. Who knows what’s hiding in that tangled mess– goes for both men and women.
Some women want to see hair, need to see it! Hair shows that you’re dealing with a grown man as opposed to a pubescent boy. I can see where they could think that.
Also, I don’t think it really matters much when you’re already half-naked and you’re mounting him. Are you really going to stop and tell him/her to shave or trim? Ah, no.
But just a word of advice men, no bush please, in EVERY sense of the word.
Back then women in porno’s had fields of bushes down there. I guess it was sexy? They eventually moved on to triangle/arrow designs, then bare so we moved along with the wave. My generation it’s rare to run into a woman who doesn’t go bare. It’s kind of frowned upon, haha. Seriously.
Men absolutely don’t want to see hair, if there is some hair that’s fine. But bushy? Turn-off. I asked four men and they all gave the same answer, and these guys have been around.
One said that if it’s the first time they’re doing it and she’s a bit bushy that just means she may not have been getting any for a while and they wouldn’t eliminate her just yet. If the second time it continued to be a wild jungle then a talk would have to happen.
Yes, these guys have told women to shave it all or at least trim! I couldn’t believe it either. How awkward would that discussion be? You seem dirty so go clean yourself up! I’d be a bit scared, haha. And if they didn’t, yes they wouldn’t date them anymore. Unbelievable.
I think if women are bushy it’s because of the times they grew up in or they were given the advice from their mothers that going au naturel was one of the ways to prevent STD’s. Well, FYI I never had an STD and I’ve gone bare since high-school! Was that just TMI?
Just keep it trimmed ladies and gents. That’s the consensus. Also follow the porno wave. If they keep it bare you shall too. As for men following the porno wave, well we aren’t always lucky in seeing penis’ unless it’s that real dirty-nasty-too-much-for-your-eyes stuff, but yeah you can follow along 🙂
Big JohnDec 30, 2014 at 6:48 pm
I’m a man in my early 40s. I am fit, and as hetero alpha male as you can find. For me, it is a big turn off if a woman is completely shaved. Some women have the right kind of labia and still look great when they are shaved, but they have to have slutty looking big labia. I guess, if they don’t look like a woman … its a turn off to the extent that I would go limp.
BetsyJan 17, 2015 at 6:15 pm
Haha “Big John” I can definitely see your POV. Everyone has a preference thats for sure!
ClifftonNov 6, 2013 at 3:14 pm
So I totally don’t care if there’s hair; if it’s a bush, it’s a bush, as long as it’s tamed and clean lol who am I to tell a woman what to do with her body? I rather that, than stubble
BetsyNov 6, 2013 at 7:15 pm
You rather a bush than stubble!? Wow what a man! Lol
JeseniaNov 6, 2013 at 10:12 am
Lol, good article. I think it’s always better to be safe and just go bare for first encounters with a partner. But there are guys who DO like hair….not a bush of course. Some say they need to see some hair so it doesn’t look like a child’s private area lol. To each it’s own, right!
BetsyNov 6, 2013 at 1:49 pm
Haha, yes I definitely agree with that! Bare for first encounter just to be safe.