Earlier today, I was wondering what I would write about in today’s blog, I jotted down ideas, but didn’t want to discuss those topics yet. I decided to call up my friend and discuss any new updates on our lives.
We started speaking about our relationships with our other half and he said “he’s getting bored.” I stated that it was normal and after awhile being in relationship for so long it becomes routine. How do you keep a relationship new and exciting? Yes, we know try new tricks in the bedroom, but even that gets played out after so long. I tried looking up what the search engines would find on “spicing up a relationship” and they all suggested sex positions and corny things to do.
The only things I could come up with was taking a vacation! It’s different from the everyday life your living. You both can live a fantasy in a different country, island or even keep it in the states. No work just booze, the luxuries of a hotel and yes the touristy experience if that’s your thing.
Also, if there’s no time or money to do that. A fun drunken night with friends is always fun! Now if you can’t hold your liquor and are violent then this post just did you no good lol. Those drunken memories are hilarious and will live on for years.
*I have never been the drinking type to get drunk, but I remember one night in particular I went out with my cousins and got wasted. Wasted because I decided to drink before going out and then chugged a Long Island Ice-Tea at the party in one minute. I’m a fun “drunk” I wanted to part all night and dance the night away. I danced alright, danced with a girl I didn’t even like! Along with drinking comes constant bathroom breaks. My lovely cousins assisted me into the bathroom and into the stall! I was butt naked and my cousin Sophia decided to take pictures lol. Well, a few weeks after that she lost her phone. Someone in this world has those pictures of me!*
One thing I love doing is checking out the free events in NYC http://www.nycgovparks.org/ they have movie nights at the parks, dance classes, performances and much more. I’m sure you can Google ‘government park events’ in whichever city your in. You will share new memories in the comfort of your own city.
And if you haven’t tried the whole new “sex techniques” thing then by all means go for it! Do a strip tease, cook for him with just an apron on and dessert is YOU later on, if he has an office go to his office naked underneath a jacket, watch porn together, make your own porn so on and so on!
If you have any suggestions you’d like to share then please do!
I must depart now, Baby Z is waking up.