If you knew me before I became a mother in a relationship you would know me as the girl who was not about this life anytime soon. My goal was to settle down and start making babies at 28 (not to “old” and not too young).
Now, I’ve been in my first REAL relationship for a year and a half and have a daughter! So I’m going through new experiences everyday.
Exciting? Always! Ha.
As early as last year (2010) I was on the scene dating and having a lot of fun in my 20’s. I loved going out having the freedom of not having to care about anything or anyone, live like a free spirit as you may say. I was always meeting new people and it was exciting. One friend in particular was a guy; who we will call Skittles (lol, hopefully he doesn’t get upset with the new name change), we had become cool since the MYSPACE days lol. After Myspace eventually died out, I had lost contact with many people, including him. Then came Twitter, where I made new contacts and eventually met new friends.
All of a sudden I get a direct message from ‘Skittles’ and it was crazy that he found me from someone else having mentioned me in a tweet. We spoke here and there once in a while as usual. We had a lot in common since he was in the music industry and I was getting into the modeling/acting industry. Eventually, numbers were exchanged and we became friends. In December of 2010 he was like a buddy that I knew all my life.
FYI-I was dating one guy in particular from October 2010 till about March 2011, on and off.
One night, on a cool-breezy night I was celebrating my cousin’s birthday at a family dinner and drama occurred between my father and I. It was really bad that I stormed off and had nowhere to go. I attempted to call the guy I was dating and guess what? He wasn’t available. I contacted ‘Skittles’ and of course he was there for me! From that day on I looked at him differently and we started a world wind romance 🙂 So I guess I should tell my dad “THANKS!”
March 2011 we began dating, moved in together July 2011, got pregnant August 2011 and had a daughter June 2012. We moved very fast and we both say it all the time, “what the hell did we do!?” Haha.
I’m not going to sit here and say I have the perfect relationship, like many want to portray on Facebook and twitter; that lovey-dovey stuff makes me sick! But so far it’s the perfect relationship that works for us.
On my blog I will speak about random subjects going on in my life, baby, celebrities, etc. whatever comes to mind 🙂