Sex is great, right? Or is that a debate? We all enjoy it and love it even more when it’s with someone you’re in love with. But does the bedroom need to be reignited after so long in the same relationship?
Sure, new sex positions, toys, ideas such as role-playing can spice up some new unspeakable urges, but is bringing in a third person going too far?
I’m all for trying new things to a certain degree, but I absolutely draw the line at inviting a third-party to roll around naked with me and my man. How is it acceptable that you share your partner with your best friend or some sleezy stranger you picked up from Craigslist or bar?
We’re all sexualized creatures by nature so I understand that new hands on you, new lips and such could excite someone, but this is just beyond a ridiculous suggestion to bring up.
People catch feelings– emotionally and physically. Say you invited your best friend to join in on the fun what happens afterwards? She enjoyed your mans ‘Johnson’so much she can’t help, but think about him constantly.
Now this broad wants to steal your man and they’ll probably have a secret relationship behind your back! Your man may or may not feel the same way, but why chance it?
I am as jealous as jealous can be. Give my man a side-eye and I’ll probably smack you upside the head! Haha, well not that extreme because I do enjoy having something you want and can’t have.
Just imagine how a jealous person like myself would act in bed– I’d be kicking her off the bed, pulling her hair and smacking her— oh wait, am I actually into the act? Haha.
In all seriousness, I would smack both of them for looking at each other or kissing each other it would ruin my relationship with him. Insecurities would be at an all time high that will probably never be repaired and my friendship (if I used a friend) would be scarred we’d probably never speak to one another again.
Even bringing up the topic could be heart-breaking to your partner. Like, “hey babe I want to be inside another woman because your ish is old.” WHAT!? He’s not exactly going to say it like that unless he has big cojones, but that’s how we’re going to translate it.
Just be careful. One has to think about the possible repercussions of such a decision. Although it might be great, it could be the demise of your once loving relationship.
What are your thoughts?
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